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Friday, March 2, 2012

GUIDE TO MAKE OPPOSITE SEX ATTRACT


Attracting the opposite sex is all in the attitude. When you are confident, witty, and charming, attracting the opposite sex is easy. There are ways to do this so that you truly feel and are all these things to the opposite sex, even if you think you are not. Here are some tips for attracting the opposite sex that will get you much attention and lots of dates when you may have had trouble in the past.





Be confident in who you are and you'll be more attractive to the opposite sex.

Hold yourself in a confident manner so that others know you feel good about yourself. Even if you don't always feel confident, fake it. Confidence comes from believing in yourself and that you can do almost anything possible. Know how good looking you are, how smart you are, how great of a person you are and project this to the opposite sex. Confidence is sexy and sexy makes the opposite sex notice you. Smile with confidence. Talk with confidence. Do most everything with confidence. The more you practice having confidence, the more you will actually find confidence and attract the opposite sex easily.



Try being witty by laughing at yourself and showing the opposite sex that you are not too serious.
Joke about yourself to the opposite sex and make fun of your flaws. Attractive people are those that can have fun at their own expense and do not take themselves too seriously. How attractive is a person who gets angry at everything and can never take a joke? Being witty comes from thinking quick and finding funny things to say, but if you mess up, make a joke about your goofiness and see how fast people laugh with you. You don't have to be a comedian to be witty. Just relax and have fun with yourself in front of the opposite sex and you'll see a quick attraction come to light.



Be charming by showing respect and kindness to the opposite sex. Chivalry is not dead if you are a woman and a man who is seeking the attraction of a lady should always be respectful and kind to her. Also, a woman who wants to attract a man should also be kind. Men don't want to attract a girl who is trashy, rude, or treats others ignorantly. Men want a girl who is sweet and acts like a lady. A lady is charming, so too is a man who is generous and has manners. Being charming in these ways can attract the opposite sex fairly easily. Anyone who is treated with kindness will usually respond in a positive way and be attracted to the opposite sex who behaves well.



Use little flirty gestures to attract the opposite sex.
 Harmless, sweet flirting can make you very attractive to the opposite sex. Throw a smile in his direction or tilt your head in a flirty way. A man can smile as well to create an attraction to himself. When you flirt in such a way that it gives attention to the opposite sex your interested in, it's noticed and often reciprocated. You'll be pleasantly surprised to see the response you get when you flirt with someone of the opposite sex. Not only will you be more attractive, but you'll also be more interesting making you more appealing to get to know better. So find anyway you can to be gently flirty (don't overdo it) and see how fast you can attract someone of the opposite sex.


Respect yourself to be more attractive to the opposite sex.
 People only want to seriously date those that they respect. This is pretty much a given. If you do not respect yourself, you will not be very attractive to the opposite sex. A woman who does not respect herself will not get very much respect from a man. In turn, a man who does not respect himself will definitely turn off a woman. Respecting yourself means acting tastefully and having manners most expected from society. Do not act trashy, rude, or vulgar in front of the opposite sex if you want to attract him or her. Instead, treat yourself well and show others that you are to be treated with respect also. Respecting yourself can make you very attractive to the opposite sex.

GUIDE TO MAKE A GOOD DATING

while dating there are a lot things that should be keep in mind.so below are mentioned few tips regarding dating.


Dating can be a tough pill to swallow, especially after many disappointing dinners, meetings, and conversations that just don't go anywhere. It always seems like the same old thing...you meet someone, talk or text for a little while, go out on a few dates (if it gets that far), then find either one or both of you just aren't feeling the chemistry, and it's over...just as quickly as it started. It can be challenging to keep this vicious cycle up and many of us choose to give up on dating altogether after enough failed meetings with the opposite sex. But, like anything else worth it in life...you have to stay determined and keep plugging away at it. Giving up on dating will only give you exactly what you don't want...a life of solitude and loneliness. Unless of course that's how you choose your life to be. But, chances are, if you have been reading this lens...not looking to be alone forever. While dating advice is not alway fool proof, there are some things you can do to attract love and happiness to you. You just have to be willing to put in the effort.

Here's a list of things to try for attracting positive dating and love experiences into your life...



Smile Often
                 
People are automatically drawn to others who are happy. Happiness makes us a joy to be around. Who wants to be in the company of someone who is always miserable and depressed? Smile a lot and you will attract the same type of person to you. Even if you are in the mood to smile, find something to be happy about (a good memory, something you want to do, the weekend...etc). Not only will you be more attractive to the opposite sex, but you'll also feel good about yourself, which is important when looking for love.


Be Positive


Don't carry the attitude that all "men" or "women" are the same. Try to be positive and open to the next person that comes into your life. Assuming that all people are the same is not only unfair to new people you meet, but also hurts you. When you carry a negativity about the opposite sex, you put a wall up and may shield you from heartache, but also keeps good people out. I guarantee you'll miss your opportunity for love if you shut down and have a negative attitude about anyone of the opposite sex.



Know You're Amazing


Realize how great you are! Right now...do it! Make a list of all your positive attributes, both physical and internal. Do you have a pretty smile, great legs, or an awesome sense of style? Are you intelligent, witty, kind-hearted? Everyone has amazing features that make them who they are and make them attractive to others of the opposite sex. Focus on these amazing qualities and build them up in your head. After all, others are looking at you in this wonderful way if you just pay attention.



Be Confident


Now that you know you have amazing features and traits...show them to the world. Flirt every chance you get, make cute conversation, walk with confidence into a room. Show others just how truly awesome you really are. Having confidence in yourself is very sexy to the opposite sex. When you feel good about yourself, others see it and this confidence attracts them to you. Confidence is like sticky paper to flies. People can't help but be drawn to it and sucked it. Try flaunting your stuff and see. You'll be pleasantly surprised.


Know What You Want


Realize what you want in the opposite sex before going on anymore dates. Don't just date to date. While the experience of dating is great, dating all the wrong people is not. It will only leave you feeling disappointed if you go out with people of the opposite sex that don't rate high on your love and relationship scale. Make a list of the qualities you want in a person so that you understand fully what it is you are looking for. Be sure you have a clear picture of what truly makes you happy.


Never Settle


Now that you have an idea of what makes you happy, don't settle for less! Only date people who deserve your love and offer the qualities you're looking for in a mate. Don't waste your time dating people that don't interest you completely. Even better, date only those people that excite you, make you want to be around them, and even share a connection with you. Yes, you might be left with less dates than usual, but remember, you are weaning out the wrong ones with good purpose...to find amazing love and happiness!